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The People"s Valentine: Safe Guide to Dating Dictators

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Michael Eric Dyson On Phil Robertson"s Biracial Grandson: Abner Louima Was Sodomized By A Man Dating A Black Woman

MICHAEL ERIC DYSON: Well, as you brilliantly articulated Ed, what they are saying is that black people and gay people don’t count. They don’t matter to the bottom line. They don’t figure in our calculations about what we think is offensive. And as a result of the Cracker Barrel crowd, that crowd that said, ‘Look, we are disgusted with you for removing the items of Phil Robertson and Duck Dynasty, we are moreover disgusted with the fact African-American and Latino and other ethnic minorities, along with gay, lesbian, transgender and bisexual people have come together to say this is an outrage. And as a result of that, they have turned this into a matter of free speech.

The irony, of course, they don’t want more speech to counteract their negative, vicious, offensive and vitriolic speech. So they’re mad at the fact we are challenging what they’re saying and we don’t have the right to free speech. A&E has made the calculation that African-American people and gay people don’t matter, not only to their bottom line, but won’t raise as hard a ruckus as the right-wing will, and those who are very supportive of the Duck Dynasty are the very people who need that insight.

And by the way, Ed, what’s interesting, the right-wing has said, ‘Look, the grandson of Mr. Robertson happens to be an adopted biracial child.’ What difference does that make? The man who plunged a plunger deep into the behind of Abner Louima was himself dating a black woman when he did that heinous act. So there is no one-to-one correlation between particular domestic intimacy with a black person or a person of color and the behavior that you manifest that is either just or unjust. So all of this stuff is being brought up as a result of this. (The Ed Show, December 30, 2013)

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Online dating levels the romantic playing field for women

Online dating levels the romantic playing field for women
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Old rules of dating put men in charge. Online dating offers an increasingly gender-equal and progressive world of romance

Online dating isn’t the future of romance, it’s the present. According to new Pew findings, one-in-ten Americans and nearly 40% of singles on the romantic hunt have used an online dating site or app. It seems to be working: nearly a quarter of online daters have met a long-term partner or spouse through the sites.

While many folks still hold a low opinion of internet daters, the cultural tides are turning, and romances kindled online are increasingly mainstream. There are, of course, downsides to meeting people online, just as there are to meeting people in any other venue. But for better or worse, internet dating is revolutionizing how we find partners – and it’s making the dating process an increasingly gender-equal and progressive one.

Old rules of dating put men in charge. Men did the asking, the planning of the date, the paying, and the asking-out-again. Women waited, made ourselves presentable, and hoped flirtations with the object of our interest would lead to an ask-out. There have always been a small handful of women who would pursue men directly, but traditionally, dating has been led by the male of the species.

And women, not wanting to appear rude, have for decades accepted invitations for dates we simply were not interested in going on. It’s a well-documented social phenomenon that women are expected to be nice and accommodating, especially to men, including the ones who ask us out. It puts women in an awkward situation, it makes men feel resentful and it wastes everyone’s time.

Online dating upends that to various degrees. It’s just as acceptable in an online space for a woman to message a man she thinks is cute as it is for a man to reach out to a woman. Most sites also have a variety of functions to show your interest if you’re not quite ready to send a full message. You can “favorite” a person’s profile, for example, letting them see that you’re interested and encouraging them to go from there.

You can also reject someone politely and efficiently with no (or at least few) hard feelings. While there are folks who get bent of out shape when their message goes unanswered – newsflash: there are crazy people on the internet – most online daters recognize that every message is a shot in the dark, and no one is obligated to respond unless they’re similarly interested. For a lot of women, the ability to avoid unwanted dates without risking offense or breaking social norms is an incredible relief. And men benefit too, by going into a date with relative certainty that the person he’s going out with at least finds him attractive on “paper” and in pictures.

Online dating also cuts through some of the unnecessary confusion in “normal” dating. Critics argue that finding a mate online removes serendipity and organic connection. That’s true, sort of – you do need to interact with someone in person to really evaluate a connection or a physical attraction. But you don’t need to meet someone in the subway or at a bar to discern a connection.

Initial offline meetings come with their own set of perils: meet someone through a friend and you’re more likely to think they’re a good person who shares your general interests and perspectives, which simply might not be true at all. It’s easy to disrupt your social group if you go out with someone a few times and then one of you loses interest while the other feels a connection.

More troubling is connecting, dating and developing real feelings before realizing you aren’t fundamentally compatible based on factors that would have been deal-breakers if you read about your partner on paper – maybe common ones like religion, politics and life goals, or specific interests like needing someone who will tolerate your playing video games for eight hours a day.

By contrast, being clear in your own dating profile can filter out fundamentally incompatible mates. Are you, say, a liberal feminist Brooklynite who would never have sex with a Republican, considers dating someone in Queens a long-distance relationship and has actual nightmares about waking up in a suburban house with a Range Rover in the driveway? That can all be specified.

Up-front disclosure helps to find someone who fits your needs, whether you want to date someone who shares your religious values, or if you have a particular fetish that you may not want to mention on a first date but that you won’t be satisfied without. Perhaps most crucially, a dating website opens up a new universe of people to meet – far more than you’ll see out at the bar down the street.

Meeting dates online, just like meeting them off, comes with negatives. The most obvious is that people lie in ways large and small. My online dating profile says I’m 5’3″ when I’m actually five-two-and-a-half, indicates I’d date anyone in the New York region when, in fact, wild horses couldn’t drag me to Staten Island and fails to disclose that in terms of hours watched, Say Yes To The Dress might qualify as one of my favorite shows.

There is also the lack of agreed-upon rules and social conventions. After how many dates with someone do you both take down your profiles? How much information is too much? It took a week for that guy to message me back – is it because I’m a hideous beast, or is he just busy? With the seemingly endless supply of internet singles and without the accountability of overlapping social groups, it’s easy for a post-date week to consist of one party going on half a dozen new dates while the other sits home waiting for a call to be returned.

And for each person who seems great, there’s a sea of other possibilities just a click away. You may get along with the person in front of you, but maybe there’s someone else out there who shares your dedication to Crossfit or your penchant for Italian cinema, or who’s just a little bit taller, or has a more interesting job. It can be overwhelming, and too tempting to resist.

What’s most heartening about the Pew poll, though, is the recognition that the internet plays a crucial role in our “real” lives, and there isn’t such a clear dividing line between how we live digitally and how we live in the world. We do our activism online, signing petitions and emailing our politicians. We do our learning online, having access to many more opinion and news pieces than we did in the pre-digital age, and even taking college courses. We’re even able to interact directly with writers, thought leaders and fellow interested citizens on platforms like Twitter and Tumblr just as we can remain connected to our family and friends near and far, seeing their pictures and updates on Facebook. We can keep in regular contact with our closest confidants, g-chatting throughout the work day or texting to make plans.

It makes sense that dating is part of that new world too. We can start romances through dating sites, get laid with apps like Grindr or Tinder, and flirt with our romantic interests or our long-time loves by sending racy Snapchats, or sexy texts. Or we can at least attempt to make our exes jealous by posting enviable Instagrams.

Is there something lost in this new world of dating? Of course. Is it often terrifying to tread new territory without the clear romantic rules our grandmothers knew? Yes. Is this universe with its dizzying array of options and increasingly equal playing field far better than the old model, even with the attendant fear of choosing the wrong thing? You bet.

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What every guy should know about dating: consent counts

I’m a firm believer in ‘no means no’ when it comes to sex, but consent should be relevant long before the bedroom

I’ve never been particularly forward when it comes to romance. Much of this probably stems from the usual impediments we all face: fear of rejection or embarrassment. Going through the various stages of: is this person interested in me, or do they just want to be friends? Oh, she’s right there, I could talk to her … but (insert excuse here).

But my hesitancy is also about not wanting to make people feel uncomfortable. It can be a minefield for men navigating the dating scene today. We’re supposed to exhibit some chivalry, yet we – rightly – should drop any notions of patriarchy. We have to be sensitive to cultural, religious, socio-economic and sexuality issues. Once, after spending an evening out with an acquaintance, I attempted to make a move. I had totally read the situation wrong, and the flustered reaction not only left me with a bit of a bruised ego, but also feeling guilty. As I’ve grown older and more confident – and thought more about sexuality and consent – I’ve embraced what I like to call the “non-presumptuous approach”.

Still, I find myself grappling with some issues in today’s dating world: when does consent actually kick in while interacting with someone you’re attracted to? And what form should consent actually take? I’m a firm believer in “no means no” when it comes to sexual intercourse, but consent should be relevant long before the bedroom.

As a legal concept, consent varies widely by jurisdiction. It’s definition can range from needing a freely expressed and clear “yes”, to anything other than a clear “no”. But the focus in the courts is on intercourse and the worst cases of rape or sexual assault.

As a young man today, I would find it immensely helpful to have an expanded notion of consent. It would encourage us to overcome our puritan-era sensibilities that make sex something that is both wrong to discuss or, worse, owed by one person to another. Instead of physical pleasure feeling like a duty owed by a wife, boyfriend, lover, or that person you danced with, it should be about treating someone reciprocally and as an equal with legitimate opinions and emotions.

It also opens the space for negotiating boundaries and interests before things get physical. No one should have to experience unwanted physical advances, especially people who have experienced sexual violence before.

Far too many people I care about are survivors of sexual assault, including some I’ve been interested in romantically. Navigating my interactions with them required a high level of sensitivity and thoughtfulness. For many victims, intimate relationships are difficult. Another person’s innocent, good faith attempts at flirtation can trigger horrible flashbacks, making much conventionally accepted courtship behavior suspect and undesirable, even hurtful.

Statistics show the epidemic is widespread. One in three women will be sexually abused over the course of their lives in America, while one in four women and one in six men will be sexually assaulted before turning 18. To reiterate the terrible significance of these numbers: someone is sexually assaulted every two minutes in the US. The onus should not be on all of these sexual assault survivors to preface their dates with a detailed background history and justification for their request at taking it slow.

I’ve heard it said that emphasizing explicit verbal communication as part of consent takes away spontaneity. It can “kill the mood”. But the best retort for this comes from the website Consent is Sexy:

If the mood can be ruined with a question, it probably wasn’t so hot to begin with.

Sexual power is also communicative power. As Anna March has written in Salon, “The more we learn to claim our own sexual power [by articulating and negotiating wants and desires], the more we will contribute to changing the landscape of sexual violence.” She goes on to add:

Let us encourage a culture where everyone – regardless of gender, orientation, etc – does so openly, honestly, respectfully.

This isn’t to say that we should abandon efforts to enshrine a more appropriate definition of “consent” within our justice system; in fact, we should pursue it all the more rigorously. But most of our relationship issues don’t end up in court. It’s the day-to-day choices we all make that have the biggest difference on our happiness and others’.

Negotiating romantic encounters without presumption and with an emphasis on establishing boundaries openly and verbally is ultimately about treating other people as no less than oneself or one’s own desires. Consent – and indeed all of romance – should be about mutual affection and respect.

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The Right Mindset To Be In When You Text A Girl

If you have the right mindset about attracting girls, you will automatically know how to text a girl and exactly what to say to make her want you.

If you don\’t have the right mindset, you will constantly be struggling to come up with what to say. And even if you do end up saying the right things, she will sense your congruency and lose attraction for you.

In this article, you are going to read about how to text girls and asking a girl out using text message.

That just comes to show you how useful the right mindset can be.

By the way, a mindset is just a set of beliefs. Your mindset determines how you think and thus how you behave.

Here is the right texting mindset for how to text a girl.

Have the attitude that she is having a boring, interesting day and you are hear to cheer her up and make her smile.

Although you are not going to do it by being super overly nice and kiss her ass. Remember, you are a high status man of value and you are doing her a favor by texting her and adding value to her life.

Think to yourself, \”How would I act if I had 10 hot, beautiful girls in my life and I had my pick of any of them?\”

Would you stress out if she didn\’t respond to your text right away? Would you sit by the phone and check it every 30 seconds to see if she has gotten back to you?

Of course you wouldn\’t.

You would just send her a fun little text and go on with your day.

You could care less if she texts you back or not. Heck! She could be fighting World War III over there and that\’s why she can\’t text you back yet. Or maybe she\’s just not interested in you. Either way, you don\’t take it personally and you stay cool.

You are trying to qualify her as much as she is trying to qualify you. You have standards to and she has to meet them.

And if you happened to be doing something when she texts you, don\’t just drop whatever it is that you were doing just to text her back. Take you\’re time. You got other things to do.

Internalize these beliefs and they will become natural.

When you can adopt this mindset when talking and interacting with girls, you will be able to think of the right thing to say, without having to force anything. As a result, you will see your success with women go way up.

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The Right Mindset To Be In When You Text A Girl

The Right Way To Text A Girl

Girls that you met last night at a bar or night club usually does not feeling the same way about you when you text them the next day.

But what if I told you that there is a technique for texting a girl that could pull her back into the state that she was in when you two met? You know, the state where she was having fun, feeling adventurous, and most importantly, thought you were really cute. Well, cute enough to give you her number at least.

In this article, you are going to know all about flirting over text and texting girls rules.

There is a technique that can do just that and it\’s called, \”Callback humor\”. It basically text messages that make her remember certain things that happened the night before and thus bring her back into that emotional state that she was in.

See when you met this girl at the bar or club or where ever, she was in a fun, flirtatious mood. But if you were to text the the next day while she\’s at work or doing the laundry, she most likely won\’t be in the same state of mind. Therefore she will be much less likely to respond positively to you.

But if you can remind her of the fun that she had last night, she will be brought back into that state that she was in when she first met you.

Plus, the best part is that she will in turn associate that positive emotion with you. It\’s kind of like the whole Pavlov\’s dog thing.

The first thing you nee to do in order to pull this off is to actually show her a good time when you first meet her. Or at the very least make sure that she is having a good time, even if you are not the direct cause of it.

This is probably the most important step. After all, if she\’s not having fun, then there won\’t be any good memories to call back to.

Once you got that part out of the way, the next step is to send her a message that calls her back to that place.

You shouldn\’t send her something generic like, \”Hey, it was night to meet you last night.\”

That\’s not very compelling and doesn\’t really reference anything.

It doesn\’t cause her to remember anything fun that happened in the past.

Here\’s a good example:

\”How fun was the party last night? Remember when you…\”

This will cause her to think back to what happened last night and remember that she was having fun. This in turn will cause her mood to change.

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The Right Way To Text A Girl

How Long Will It Take To Get Your Boyfriend Back?

Waiting and being patient is highly over-rated. Those that tell you that you should just wait for your ex-boyfriend to come back to you probably have some memory loss and forget what it\’s like to try to wait for an ex to come back to them. If you had some hope though or some sort of sign that things were going to work out, the waiting probably wouldn\’t be so much of a problem. You know in your heart that what you had was real and you\’re sure that given some time you can get him back but you want to know for sure. You want to know what\’s going through his head and where you stand right now.

You understand that if you hound him and try talking about the breakup and getting back together you will spook him. You know that nothing good will come of trying to convince him to come back to you and that you\’ll only push him away by chasing after him. Still, the days pass and at times you fear the worse. You know that in time he will either come back to you or he will find someone new. With every passing day the chances of some other woman catching his eye grow. What should you do? You really don\’t have many choices at the moment, do you?

You don\’t want to be patient and you don\’t want to wait even though you know in your heart that you must. You can wait for many things and wish that life would teach you patience with something that isn\’t quite as important as the relationship with the one that you love. It\’s a double edged sword. You feel that if you wait too long you run the chance that he will move on with his life and find someone new. Yet, you know that if you pursue him or try to do anything that he might view as being pushy and you\’ll be signing your own death warrent and push him into the arms of someone new. It really is enough to drive you mad.

Not knowing how long you should wait can be frustrating and sitting there waiting is a very poor use of your time. It\’s just not helpful. What might work best is to take a one week period of time and tell yourself that during this time you\’re going to stop worrying about how to get him back and instead you\’re going to focus on making yourself happy. You can still think about him but instead of filling your mind with crazy scenarios where he runs off with another woman, you\’re going to think about your relationship in a more positive light. You\’re going to think about how you want things to be and how wonderful it will be when you are back together. You are going to be happy for a chance and this will be the entire focus for this one week period of time.

Start doing things for yourself for a change. Call some old friends that you haven\’t seen in a while or treat yourself to a dinner out. Spend some time shopping, even if it\’s just window shopping. Fix up your bedroom so it\’s just the way you want it or have a movie marathon of the movies that you like. Whatever makes you happy is what you are going to do for this week. Try to think of something special that you can do to treat yourself and improve your mood and your attitude. It is basic human nature that we are more attractive when we are happy, smiling and optimistic. Your ex-boyfriend is no exception and you will soon understand that you will stand a much better chance of getting him back if you\’re happy than if you\’re sad and depressed looking all the time.

Understanding what a man needs to feel attraction as well as how you can play off of these needs and desires is crucial to actually winning him over. This isn\’t some form of trickery. This is just basic psychology and how relationships often work. Knowing that you can get him back and understanding how you will get him back will shorten the amount of time it\’s going to take to bring him around and the sooner you start feeling better about yourself the happier you will be for all the right reasons.

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Dating When You\"re Depressed

Maybe you are dealing with depression, with moods, with deep sadness. You still want to find that special someone who makes you laugh and will be there for you. Dating can be fun, and it can be a welcome distraction from your depression. Sharing new experiences and enlightening conversations with someone can give you much to look forward to. Many depressed people are nervous or even afraid of dating because of their depression. They may have had someone stop dating them because of their depression, which is very difficult. But there is hope!

ASKING SOMEONE OUT ON A DATE: Gathering the courage to ask someone out on a date is tough for anyone, especially if you are depressed. But stay positive – many people are flattered if you ask them out on a date in a polite, sweet way. Keep it complimentary to them and brief. Try to think of a creative date idea where you\’ll have an opportunity to talk, like roller-skating, a comedy club or something you know they like to do. If it\’s someone you\’ve known for a long time, keep it positive and a no-pressure situation. You want to still be friends even if the date doesn\’t turn out like you hope. If it\’s someone you\’ve just met, aim for a fun date where you can get to know them.

Many people don\’t ever ask someone on a date because they are afraid of rejection. If you think about being rejected over and over and never ask, you\’ve rejected yourself. They might have said yes! Instead, visualize them saying yes. Plan out what you\’ll say and rehearse it, so you\’ll be comfortable saying it. Some people will say no for a variety of reasons. It\’s not always personal – they might be nervous or afraid themselves! Instead, be persistent and positive. If you become angry or feel sorry for yourself, you will only hold yourself back from dating the next person. Remember, everyone experiences rejection at some point. The persistent people push past rejection to find the person who does want to date them.

YOUR FIRST DATE: Congratulations! Someone accepted your invitation to go on a date. On the first date, you\’ll probably be excited and thrilled. As you go on more dates with the person, you might feel your feelings become less intense. Your activities may become routine. You can keep things exciting by suggesting new activities and new topics of conversation.

CONVERSATION DURING DATES: There are do\’s and don\’ts, especially on first dates. Avoid, avoid, avoid talking about negative feelings and tragic past experiences. Keep it positive, even if you are feeling low. People are usually attracted towards positive, high-energy attitudes and turned off by sad and depressed. Depression is a difficult condition to understand and handle. You can\’t expect someone to understand all of its effects on a first date. Instead, know that if you keep dating this person, you\’ll eventually be able to talk about deeper issues, such as your depression. They\’ll be in a better position to listen to what it is like at that point. But for the first date, keep topics light and happy. Ask them about their favorite hobbies, their friends and family, and funny stories.

Hopefully this has started you on the path to happiness with dating. Remember to keep your chin up.s

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Dating When You\"re Depressed

Approaching Girls - You Too Can Master This Skill

Most insecure guys have no idea how to approach girls. They don\’t know how to approach, what to say and more often than not they don\’t even think about trying to approach women to learn how to master this skill. Why they do it? Approaching women is not only a superb way to start a relationship with someone special – it\’s also a lot of fun. In this article you\’ll read about three tips which will surely help you approach girls.

1. Hesitation kills confidence

The most essential thing to bear in mind is that the longer you think about approaching a girl, the lower the probability you\’re going to talk to a girl you find attractive. The majority of shy guys are exceptional with their \”excuse-making\” skills. When approach anxiety appears, that\’s exactly the time you have to kill fear and act in spite of it. The more anxious you feel, the more important it is to take action because once you approach, you\’ll understand that it isn\’t that difficult and that you can live despite your fear.

2. It\’s got to be a part of you

Approach women wherever you are. Don\’t make approaching women an activity you do only on weekends at night clubs. The more frequently you go out, the more successful you are with women. The best idea is to approach in the street, simply due to the fact that there\’s no competition (in night clubs, you always have hundreds of guys approaching girls) and because girls don\’t expect to be approached (which makes their reactions more positive).

3. Achieve this simple goal

Is it really your dream to become good with girls? Then here\’s a simple challenge for you – approach 50 females during the day and tell them in a direct way what you think (e.g. \”I find you sexy and I want to find out who you are\”). Approaching women in the street is the most reliable way to learn how to approach females. You\’ll discover answers to all or almost all questions that you have today simply by approaching women regularly and analyzing your mistakes.

You no longer have an excuse to say that you have no idea how to approach women because tips listed in this article are everything that you have to understand to do it! Now leave your home and start practicing on your own – it\’s essential to try all the tips in this article, because otherwise you\’ve just lost a couple of minutes of your life reading this article.

Lastly, bear in mind that approaching females is something you should do for fun. If you don\’t have fun with that, it will be difficult to improve quickly. Learn how to approach despite fear and you will quickly feel excitement instead of anxiety. You can make it!

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The Advantages of employing Dating Sites

Your escalating interest in black dating websites is beginning to change the way you discover days right now. You can forget needing to select a night out simply by seems to be or perhaps a speedy initial effect. The greater such sites are widely-used, the greater and much more substantial they\’re going to turn into.

You\’re successful using an exact persona report will territory a lot more possibly suitable days when compared with venturing out as well as obtaining individuals yourself. Computers are receiving better of their power to go with single profiles which would be to your benefit to find you to definitely day. If you are going through selecting dating sites, think about what you will be seeking in addition to just how much you\’re happy to buy a subscription.

Some good internet sites have got totally free monthly subscriptions obtainable unless you wish to commit anything. There are numerous free dating website is very totally free and also brimming with fun new individuals that you can satisfy. The easiest method to determine any website\’s high quality is actually reading through recommendations via consumers. A lot of people happen to be matched upward depending on their own personality report and possess eliminated as much as obtaining a man or woman that to get a matrimony partnership.

Online dating websites can easily attract just about any solitary individual available. Whether or not they are searching for a life threatening connection or simply somebody searching for a person to like, they\’re likely to find a person. How an online dating site functions commences with the particular syndication of the person\’s user profile. Fundamentally, this can be a most of the online site\’s content material.

When you publish a user profile, you are able to surf additional member\’s users to consider somebody who interests your current flavor. Merely when you are truthful is it possible to uncover or perhaps be discovered by to start a date which is strongly matched up for a wants along with desires. Integrity is the greatest insurance plan. It\’s not necessary to embellish on seems to be or perhaps persona in order to have a time. There exists an individual around for anyone. Many dating sites provide privacy on your basic safety and also privateness.

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The Advantages of employing Dating Sites

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Things You Should Know To Make Your Guy Stay In A Longer Relationship With You

He profusely lavished you with sweet text messages, regular calls, and made you fall for him with great conversations and impressive dates, only to suddenly become distant and completely leave. In most cases, this occurs after you had consented sex with him or when you started talking about about entering into a deeper relationship. This scenario prompts you to ask, did he court me just to have *********** with me? Is there something wrong with me? Why is he no longer interested in me? Was a long-term relationship ever in his mind?

Reasons why guys pull away

Men have this intrinsic hunter nature which makes them seek the rush and excitment of being confronted with a challenge which explains why they have this penchant for challenging sports, action movies, and cut-throat video games. This same tendencies extends to dating – they endeavor to gain your affection, or at least have you sleep with him. The truth is, men enjoy the chase, this means, if you demonstrate that you\’re completely into him, and you\’ve consented to sleep with him very early on in your relationship, the pursuit for him is over and would probably look elsewhere to satisfy this need. Many guys suddenly become less interested in the relationship because they are convinced that the emotional attachment is a burden to them. Case in point, if a girl becomes overly obsessive, he finds the relationship emotionally and physically exhaustive, which prompts him to look for other activities or females where he can have more freedom. One more answer to the question \”why do men pull away?\” is that they feel threatened when you tell him to commit to a deeper and exclusive relationship. This is because by doing this you are effectively telling him to stop looking for challenges which to him is a threat to his manliness.

How to make him commit

First of all, don\’t give all of yourself early on in the relationship. Make him genuinely attracted to you. Additionally, ultimatums are a no-no. Asking him to commit to you exclusively earlier on in the relationship will be a red flag for him and will make him distance himself. If you want your boyfriend to commit, make him wish to do so by associating enjoyment with commitment. Find ways to tease him, make him chase you, and reward him accordingly to keep him inspired, and by reward, it isn\’t necessary to be sex at all times. Males enjoy challenges and competition, so use this to your benefit.

If in spite of your efforts he still pulls away, don\’t blame yourself for everything. That simply shows he is truly not interested, and that is one guy you don\’t want to end up with for the rest of your life.

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Things You Should Know To Make Your Guy Stay In A Longer Relationship With You

5 Common Online Dating Mistakes

In the past, there\’s no any other way to find a date than to meet someone personally. Busy people and extremely shy ones find this approach to traditional dating hard. Thus, when online dating came with the arrival of the internet, these people couldn\’t be happier. Aside from the fact that online dating is more convenient, it could also be more cost-efficient than traditional dating.

Online dating may be different from traditional dating in a number of ways but just like the latter, it has its dos and don\’ts. If you want to succeed in finding a date online, then you better avoid the following mistakes commonly committed by dating site members:

1. Posting outdated photo

In an online dating site, a profile with a missing photo is like a prospective date without a head. Your photo is one of the many things that people would be looking forward to. So don\’t bother joining dating sites if you don\’t have any plan of posting your most recent photo.

2. One-liner profile

If you came across a member\’s profile with a beautiful photo yet empty \’about me\’ section, what would you think? Are you thinking of someone you\’d like to date sometime soon? I guess not. I bet you\’re thinking of someone who\’s hiding something, right?

Just think of it as a \’self-promoting speech\’ you usually give to people you meet. It doesn\’t have to be long. You simply just have to make sure that you include relevant information about yourself like your hobbies and passion in life.

3. Trusting too easily

Just because you\’ve been chatting most of the days doesn\’t mean that the other person is already worth your trust. Spend more time with him/her and learn how to spot scammers from people who really just want to get to know you better. Avoid giving too many personal details especially during your 1st week in the site.

4. Lying

Although it\’s hard to tell whether or not the person is lying in online dating, it is still considered as a big no-no. Lying, no matter how small that thing is, is a turnoff. You wouldn\’t want to be liked for someone you\’re not, right? Be real. Be yourself.

5. Choosing a dating site quickly

Why hurry? There are thousands of dating sites that you can choose from so take your time. If you\’re still not sure if online dating is for you, then you can take advantage of free dating sites.

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5 Common Online Dating Mistakes

Marking Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month

Valerie Jarrett

February 28, 2013
05:00 PM EST

Today, I had the opportunity to speak at the 1 is 2 Many Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month event at the White House. In attendance were family members of victims who were killed by teen dating violence, high school and college students, and a variety of organizations and school association representatives. The program featured speakers from the Departments of Education and Justice and ended with a group discussion with the students.

Ending violence against all women is a priority of this administration. And today’s reauthorization on the Violence Against Women Act will help further reduce teen dating violence. The author of the original legislation, Vice President Biden also dropped by to speak to the teens and families at the event.

Unfortunately, teen dating violence is still far too common. As many as one in 10 high school students nationwide have reported that they were intentionally physically hurt by their boyfriend or girlfriend, and still more experienced verbal or emotional abuse like shaming, intimidation, or threats. That’s why it was so important to hear from young people who are committed to stopping the violence. Their advocacy and action inspires us to fight to end teen dating violence. 

Addressing teen dating violence is critical in our broader efforts to empower young women. I chair the White House Council on Women and Girls, which President Obama created nearly four years ago. He gave the Council an important mission – to make sure that all federal agencies consider the needs of women and girls in every policy, every program and every piece of legislation.

Every corner of the federal government has responded to the President’s charge, and that includes our efforts to end violence against teens and young women.

We have focused on two goals: First, to improve our response to dating violence so that victims can get better help. And second, to make sure that the violence doesn’t happen in the first place.

When Vice President Biden announced the 1 is 2 Many campaign in 2011, he charged us with identifying concrete steps we could take to meet these goals. We created new ways to reach survivors through text messaging, online services, and mobile apps. We held regional forums around the country to engage men into the conversation about violence against women. And last summer, President Obama and Vice President Biden released a public service announcement featuring David Beckham, Jeremy Lin and other star athletes speaking out about dating violence.   

We also recognized the importance of working with schools, because we knew that they could play a vital role in responding to violence, and helping survivors get connected with services. Research shows that when schools have policies in place to reduce violence, rates of teen dating violence and sexual harassment go down.

To help schools address teen violence, today, the Department of Education released a letter that provides schools with much-needed guidance and resources to respond to gender-based and teen dating violence. This is a big step forward, and happened in part because of the advocacy of family members whose daughters have died because of teen violence.

During his 1 is 2 Many announcement last year, Vice President Biden also challenged us to think about cultural change- how do we change the attitudes that allow violence to continue? He emphasized the importance of men acting as role models for young men. It was so encouraging to see young men speaking out against teen dating violence at our event.

As President Obama has said before, it will take more than government to get things done. It will take the efforts of everyone to end teen dating violence, and to create a better future for our young Americans.

Valerie Jarrett is a Senior Advisor to President Barack Obama and Chair of the White House Council on Women and Girls.

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Marking Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month

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